- Don’t Matter if You’re Black or White
- “Aunt” or “Ant?” It’s Not a Black and White Issue
- Chinese or Blonde? How About Both?
- Race Discrimination: “Is It My Fault?”
- Black in the Supermarket Checkout Line
- The Toddler Color Association Game
- Boy, Am I Glad I’m White!
- Returning Land to the “Brown People”
- So….I’m Not White?
- Jordan’s Story
- Neil’s Story
- The Color of Breakfast
- The Color of Peanut Butter
- Black and White
- Racial Profiling
- The Sesame Street Connection
- Kate’s Story
- Learning Racial Inferiority
- How Do You Tell A Dark Person from a Light Person?
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The first time I became aware of my race was in pre-school when I was four years old. The pre-school was in a suburban town outside of Boston, MA in the early 1990’s. I was the only black student in … Continue reading
My son was about 2 when the class studied Black History Month at his preschool, which is large majority white and Asian, with many Black teachers. My son is biracial Jewish and Chinese American. We’ve brought him to Chinese class, … Continue reading
I am a white woman, my husband is biracial (black/white) and we have a four year old son. I had recently returned from a vacation in Mexico and had a suntan. While walking home one day with my husband and … Continue reading
Our 4 year-old daughter, of black mother and Jewish father, told her mom, “I’m white,” to which her mother responded, “You are both white and black, because you have a white father and a black mother.” Thanks to … Continue reading
My daughter just turned one. She is biracial. When we have playdates and meet other children her age, the other kids look at me with what my husband and I call the “Wow you are different” look. In our case … Continue reading
We were fortunate to send our children to a school that was a little more diverse than most elementary schools in our town – this was 28 years ago. My tow-headed daughter would come home from kindergarten telling me about … Continue reading
I am a black, West Indian woman who recalls my younger sister’s interaction with us (Parents and I) on one occasion. We were sitting down and my sister, around 3 years old at the time – she was much lighter … Continue reading
It was Martin Luther King, Jr. day at my son’s public school. The teacher was telling the kindergarteners about segregation and the hardships of being an African American at the time. My son said, “Boy, am I glad I’m white!”. … Continue reading